Whether you’re a constant updater or just check your Facebook account periodically, it’s a fact that social media has changed how we live our lives. It’s a way to stay in touch and reconnect.
But we’ve all seen the dark side of social media as well, and pictures of past exploits have doomed many careers. A person’s online activities become fair game and they are being used in courtrooms all over the world.
Posts as evidence
Social media posts can be used as evidence during child custody hearings. It’s not unusual for the opposing party to comb through your profiles to search for evidence that could portray you in a negative light.
Since some pictures and posts lack context, they are often open to broad interpretation. A picture of a night out with friends or an ill-timed statement could be used as proof that you are irresponsible or have poor decision-making skills. Additionally, comments made when you’re angry or frustrated can be damaging when the court is looking for cooperation and mutual respect between you and your ex-partner.
Family court judges are focused on doing what is in the child’s best interests. Sharing too much about your finances or showing off big purchases can be used as evidence that you are not acting in the child’s best interest. The other party may also look for posts or replies to other people that portray you as someone who is argumentative or reckless. Your online behavior could be seen to reflect your stability and focus on your child.
Staying off social media is your best strategy while a child custody dispute is ongoing, but may not always be practical. Therefore, it’s crucial to limit posts about your personal life and refrain from discussing your case, your ex, the lawyers and the judge.
You want to present yourself as the best choice for your child. Keeping the focus on them can help ensure that the judge sees someone who prioritizes their children over their appearance.
